Mom, I have started to spend most of my time alone. When someone asks me to do something I usually don’t want to do what they are doing and I don’t feel like I want to hang around with anyone. Is it ok if I spend most of my time by myself?
Being alone isn’t bad but, are you doing something that you like doing while you’re alone, or are you sitting on the couch watching tv all day and all night? It’s better if you balance your time and spend some time alone, but do things with people you know and it’s also good to spend some time trying to meet new people and make new friends. Spending time alone doesn’t mean that you sit in the house by yourself, go do something, being alone should never stop you from doing things.
Dear Mom, I live in the South, my friend who lives in a state in the North visited me in the winter. We planned that I would visit her in the summer, but I just got an invitation from someone else for the same time that we planned to get together to go somewhere that I have never been. I only have 2 weeks vacation so I can’t do both. I would really like to accept the second invitation. What should I do?
Did you make definite plans with your friend for the summer vacation or was it just mentioned? Is your friend counting on it? Are you trying to justify accepting a better invitation? There’s a friendship involved here, not just a vacation. If you answer these questions honestly you’ll know what you should do…
too hot to cook, but make a pot of pasta and this is a perfect summer dish…
Mediterranean Summer Pasta with Salsa Cruda
1/2 cup pitted olives, lightly chopped
2 ripe tomatoes, seeded and chopped
2 to 3 tablespoons chopped fresh mint
2 tablespoons capers
1 clove garlic, smashed
1 teaspoon red pepper flakes
1 teaspoon orange zest
1/3 cup olive oil
Kosher salt and freshly cracked pepper
12 ounces angel hair pasta
Parmesan, for grating
In a large pasta serving bowl, mix together the olives, tomatoes, mint, capers, garlic, red pepper flakes, orange zest and olive oil. Season with salt and freshly cracked pepper. Stir and lightly press the ingredients with the back of the spoon to incorporate flavors. Let sit for at least 30 minutes, or up to a day.
Just before serving, cook the angel hair pasta in salted boiling water according to package instructions. Remove the garlic clove from the pasta sauce. Drain the pasta and while still steaming hot, place the pasta on top of the cold sauce. Let sit for a minute before tossing the pasta. Top with grated Parmesan and serve.
recipe from thekitchn.com
hi mom, I’m having a party and I’m not a good cook. What should I do to make sure that the party is is a great success? I don’t think I can learn to cook by this weekend!
Food is maybe the most important thing at a party, but a close second is music. Make sure music is playing all the time. Good music will make everyone will think that they’re having fun as soon as they show up…have everyone help with the rest and cater everything…have as much fun as your guests
Ask mom, Sometimes I don’t think before I say things and I’m so worried that I will say something to hurt someone’s feelings, so even when someone asks me I never give my opinion or say what I really think. If someone asks should I say what I really think?
It depends who you are talking to and lots of times it’s not what you say, but how you say it. Don’t worry so much about offending people with the truth. Always say whatever you have to say with as much kindness as possible.
Mom- will I get more things done if I multitask or do one thing at a time? It seems like I never get anything done.
I used multitasking as an excuse to start lots of things and never finishing anything. It takes too much energy to figure out how to do a lot of things at the same time. I don’t have a multigrain, so it works better to make a list or decide the most important thing that needs
to be done when you have a lot to do. Prioritize, and do one thing at a time. Finish something and move on, at least you will finish whatever you start instead of leaving a few things almost done.
Dear Mom, I’m going on vacation alone. I need your best advice for having a good time on my own.
Good for you…my best advice is plan for the worst and don’t over plan, Talk to people, make friends and just see where you wind up. Walk a lot and don’t worry about your body clock, sleep when you can- but keep going, you’ll sleep when you get home… enjoy
If you love peaches, lemonade and anything spiked- you’ll love this, enjoy…
Sparkling Spiked Peach Lemonade