better to give than to receive
Mom- I got some gifts that I don’t want. Can I ask where they came from so that I can return them?
If it’s something that’s the wrong size you can ask so that you can exchange it, but otherwise don’t ask. Say thank you and keep it. You can regift it or donate it, but don’t ask where it came from just so that you can return it. If the person who gave it to you finds out that you returned it then you might make someone feel bad about trying to doing a good thing…it sounds like you don’t get the idea of giving or getting a gift.